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Nonredamancy is a more formal way of describing the friendzone. It basically refers to the situation wherein one makes efforts to romantically connect with a person and faces only rejection, nonreciprocity and unrequitedness. In a nutshell, nonredamancy consitutes typically failing at one's courtship attempts.


The most common cause of nonredamancy is the failo effect. The common side-effects of nonredamancy are sexlessness, perpetual singehood, isolation and becoming GDE (a genetic dead end).

Although rejection is normal and even something which normies should anticipate, the rate at which people face nonredamancy varies widely. Whereas it is possible that top decilers such as Francisco Lachowski don't even know what nonredamancy feels like, bottom decilers such as Joseph Merrick (elephant man) will probably face a stupendous amount of nonredamancy.

Since cold approaches and warm approaches are primarily a male domain, women are often similar to Lachowski in that they typically are unaware of what nonredamancy feels like. This obliviousness is one of the reasons those in the incelosphere tend to be perplexed whenever they see a female journalist writing about male sexuality. In the cybercel's mind, this makes zero sense since a female cannot possible have any inkling of what the male experience is like. One demographic that is well-acquainted with nonredamancy is those on the inceldom spectrum. What separates normies from those on the inceldom spectrum is that whereas normies may experience nonredamancy at an intermittent rate, for the latter, nonredamancy is perpetual; hence the neologism perpetual nonredamancy.


There are many rhematic synonyms and near-synonyms of the term nonredamancy. The following are examples that are based on a heterosexual model out of pragmatic purposes:

*cockblock (female to male)
*friendzone (gender-neutral)
*incelize (gender-neutral)
*left-swipe (gender-neutral; dating apps)
*cold-shoulder (gender neutral)
*ghost (gender neutral)
*unrequit (gender-neutral)
*unreciprocate (gender-neutral)
*clam-jam (male to female)
*twat-swat (male to female)

Incel Wiki, Incel Wiki 7 Comments [2/10/2019 11:35:28 AM]
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Submitted By: Pharaoh Bastethotep

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Pharaoh Bastethotep

What the hell is that word supposed to mean? What does this have to do with divination? And what is "reda"? Apparently, it's ... a town in Poland???

2/10/2019 11:33:19 AM


Suggestion: if you require a new language to describe something, it's probably because it doesn't exist as a novel entity. It's just a situation that has always been around, and our current language serves very well to describe it. Giving it a new name merely pretends that it's something you've just discovered. Go talk to your grandpa AND your grandma, then delete this laughably naïve entry.

2/10/2019 12:52:13 PM

"What's this then?....People called 'incels' they spew crap on the Internet?"

2/10/2019 4:32:53 PM

Pharaoh Bastethotep

I thought you incels already had your own sciency term for being in the friendzone: "being a beta orbiter".

2/10/2019 4:50:22 PM


I looked it up to see if "redamancy" is a real word. It is, albeit an archaic one. It means "reciprocal love", as opposed to "unrequited love". Honestly, if you're going to use an obscure or made-up term, "urequitation" gets the point across better (and in fact, searching the web indicates that I'd be far from the first to suggest that particular neologism).

Also they seem to be assuming that women very rarely experience unrequited love, and failing to reciprocate to someone else's love is evil or something... as if people can control their emotions like that. While somehow failing to notice that if people could control their emotions like that, then it would go both ways. Why can't you just choose to love someone else rather than the one who isn't interested? /sarc

The lack of self-awareness is... well, it just is.

2/10/2019 6:01:14 PM


"wherein one makes efforts to romantically connect with a person and faces only rejection, nonreciprocity and unrequitedness."

So, yeah, you loaned a pencil to that cheerleader in Government class, and she neither dropped to her knees to fellate you NOR did she make an appointment to do it later.

That's a big issue, must mean you're especially discriminated against.

2/11/2019 5:39:23 AM

Doubting Thomas

I can't wait for their language to evolve to the point where they're the only ones who can communicate with each other.

2/11/2019 7:58:21 AM

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