This idea you have that people who think like us are triggered and frothing at the mouth because some guy has an Asian buddy or dates a Polynesian chick is a movie nazi strawman.
We just want historically white countries to not make policies that specifically hurt the interest of whites.

Do you ask an Israeli if he's not Israeli anymore because he has an Arab friend? Do Israelis with Chinese friends make Israel not a Jewish state?

If Israel is <50% Jewish it won't be a Jewish state anymore. Likewise, if UK or America is <50% white it will be like Brasil at best or Venezuela at worst.

As a Brasilian I can assure you, it's better for whites to have demographics like Germany or America than it is to have demographics like Brasil.
None of this means we think its immoral or anger inducing to have a foreign friend.

If I could ask you a question out of curiosity, at what % population does a racial group have to be before they can specifically advocate for their ethnic interests such as Blacks and Asians do in the UK?