You don't seem to be particularly perceptive, dearie...
"most kind to women"? That's pretty misogynistic, actually.
We want RESPECT, and equal rights, not people being kind to us, dumbass!
Paraguay is right now refusing a 10-year old girl an abortion. She was raped by her step-father and became pregnant. A pregnancy and a delivery might well kill her. But, to these "free, kind and non-violent" people, the parasite in her stomach trumps her human rights. So, both totalitarian and misogynist.
As to homophobic Christian nations:
http://www.newsweek.com/top-twelve-most-homophobic-nations-230348
Eight of these thirteen countries are predominantly Christian.
The others are religious countries as well. None of them is an overtly atheist country.
I bet more people clamor to get into Sweden, the Netherlands, Denmark, Norway, the Czech Republic, UK, Japan, than Uganda, Senegal, Honduras, Nigeria, Zimbabwe...
Besides, which group does the US belong to? It has a non-religious government, but a very religious population.