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#1130690
Canadia
Nothing is easier when you're openly homosexual.
3/10/2010 7:49:36 AM
#1130697
TGRwulf
"There is however many gays that would love to be helped back to a normal life"
Okay first off, define "normal".
Second, show me one, JUST ONE, homosexual person that truley wants to change because it would make them happy and not because assholes like you are forcing them to.
3/10/2010 7:55:45 AM
#1130698
Doubting Thomas
It's biological and there's nothing they can do.
Oh and by "normal life" do you mean people like Ted Haggard and that sham of a marriage he has?
3/10/2010 7:56:04 AM
#1130702
So, he has decided to reject his natural and instinctive attraction to women for what exactly?. Not to have children with the other person with whom you copulate?. To receive persecution and misunderstanding?. To get.............well, some sexual pleasure which otherwise would get with women?
3/10/2010 8:01:34 AM
#1130705
Swede
If they can switch back and forth, they are bisexual, not homosexual.
A homosexual life IS a normal life, you dolt. The only itty-bitty thing that is different is the gender of the person they fall in love with. Otherwise it's all the same; wake up, eat breakfast, go to work, buy grocery, mow the lawn, feed and walk the dog, have dinner, watch some telly, then go to bed and maybe have a bit of sex before falling asleep. And then the same thing the next day, and the next day, and the next day.
Seems perfectly normal to me...
3/10/2010 8:02:48 AM
#1130710
Sisyphus
Why is a "normal" life only what you define it to be? Maybe heterosexuals are the abnormal ones and gays have it right!
3/10/2010 8:06:29 AM
#1130711
aaa
What.
3/10/2010 8:06:57 AM
#1130720
I read about the afterlife
"How dare you take that hope away from them by saying things like it's biological and there's nothing they can do."
Yeah, god forbid we tell them the truth.
3/10/2010 8:15:43 AM
#1130723
Quantum Mechanic
It's biological. Deal with it.
3/10/2010 8:16:31 AM
#1130734
Zoo
I like when people with no experience talk as if they could possibly know what really goes on in another person's head.
3/10/2010 8:41:07 AM
#1130735
Xotan
You know this, how?
I'm gay, so I reckon I know better than you. I never wanted to be gay, but I had to come to terms with it. No. Fervent praying didn't help. Religious people didn't help because they didn't know a goddamned thing about it except what their prejudice informed them, and they consequently added to the misery of this young man who definitely didn't want to be different from the rest. And you are doing exactly the same thing, you ignorant bitch. Pretending that you know, and that you are right. You and your ilk are even, on occasion, the final step that pushes a young person over the edge into suicide. But that's probably all to the good as far as you are concerned.
For gays normal life is being gay. Until I came to this realisation (fortunately while I was still in mny 20s, I was in pain, emotional and spiritual. When I freed myself from religious bitches that think they know it all, I started to live a good, prosperous, and fulfilling life. I have a partner for most of my life and we will look after each other until our time comes to leave this planet. At that time, one or the other will see his partner through the final hours, offering love, strength and courage to our capacity. It is far more that Vita or the religious nuts would offer. All they offer is the false hope that being gay is changeable. Except, perhaps, for very few, it is something that is and integral part of a person that cannot be changed. Messing with someone's psychology can have dire consequences. Take that onto your conscience Vita, if you have one other than your prejudices.
Take it from me, and I am pushing 70, people like Vita are mean, vicious religious nuts who are homophobic and whose godliness is based on hate. A blasphemy is ever there were!
@ Canadia
It wasn't so easy to be 'out' when I was a young man. But essentially you are right in the conditions that now prevail.
3/10/2010 8:42:59 AM
#1130736
misshani
"You're gay because you've chosen to allow and succumb to perverted thoughts and feelings. You've? made a choice to be gay because it's easier justifying your actions then doing something about them."
So how many gay thoughts do you have on a daily basis that you must "do something about" in order to not succumb to them?
A straight person wouldn't have a choice. The attraction just wouldn't be there, because that's what being straight means. Just as a gay man isn't able to choose being attracted to a woman. Same concept.
If your view of sexuality is that of choice, then by definition you are bi.
Congratulations.
3/10/2010 8:47:26 AM
#1130748
FSMpirate
I reject god. Am I gay now?
Dude, my wife is going to be pissed.
3/10/2010 8:57:16 AM
#1130755
Zeus Almighty
*cough* Larry Craig, Ted Haggard, Mark Foley *cough*
3/10/2010 9:14:15 AM
#1130759
John
You're gay because you've chosen to allow and succumb to perverted thoughts and feelings.
Do you have those "perverted" thoughts and feelings? I don't. I wouldn't have sex with another guy if I had a gun to my head. Being attracted to women wasn't something I "chose". If you can't understand that, maybe you're bisexual yourself.
3/10/2010 9:19:50 AM
#1130769
PWEOTWEB
And who says that rejecting your homophobic, genocidal, slavery-loving, near-sighted, retarded god is a bad thing?
3/10/2010 9:31:12 AM
#1130773
emau99
You're gay because you've chosen to allow and succumb to perverted thoughts and feelings.
Does this mean that you're straight because you've chosen not to "allow and succumb to perverted thoughts and feelings"?
Because, if that's the case...you may not be straight after all, vita008.
You've? made a choice to be gay because it's easier justifying your actions then doing something about them.
You're absolutely right. It's easier to accept who you are than to try to be somebody you're not. What's your point?
To be a homosexual is to Reject God and all and any logic that says otherwise.
Not at all.
Are you really sure that you want to bring logic into this?
There is however many gays that would love to be helped back to a normal life.
That's probably because they're being harrassed and bullied by people like you for being gay, and they want it to end.
How dare you take that hope away from them by saying things like it's biological and there's nothing they can do.
Where do you get off saying that it *isn't* biological?
3/10/2010 9:35:55 AM
#1130776
Why would anyone choose to be the target of so much hate and persecution? THAT makes no damn sense.
And if you have to fight off homosexual thoughts, then guess what? You're probably actually gay or bisexual. You'll be much happier if you just accept that fact and maybe meet up with a nice homosexual or bisexual man/woman.
3/10/2010 9:39:05 AM
#1130778
Berny
You're a bigoted Christian because you've chosen to allow and succumb to Bronze Age mentality and biases. You've made a choice to be Christian because it's easier justifying your hatreds then doing something about them. To be a judgemental Christian is to reject reality and all and any logic that says otherwise. There is however many Christians that would love to be helped back to a sane life. How dare you take that hope away from them by saying things like it's the only way and there's nothing they can do.
Fixed.
Homosexuality is not a choice. I can no more choose to be gay than a homosexual can choose to be straight, or a fundamentalist Christian can choose to think for themselves.
Oh, wait... That last one isn't true. They choose not to think.
3/10/2010 9:41:04 AM
#1130779
I wonder when vita008 chose to be straight.
3/10/2010 9:41:08 AM
#1130792
Jake
TGRwulf -
*Raises hand*
Satisfied? Or are you going to try to convince me that I don't really know what I want, and that I actually enjoy being a homosexual deep down?
3/10/2010 10:04:05 AM
#1130795
freako104
I know many gay people who are living "normal" lives. It is you and your ilk who force your ways on them and seem uncomfortable with it and obsess over it
3/10/2010 10:06:50 AM
#1130796
GodotIsWaiting4U
"Reject God and all and any logic that says otherwise"
Well, they're just rejecting God then.
3/10/2010 10:07:14 AM
#1130829
Dr. Shrinker
I rejected your god long ago, but I'm not gay. Did I do it wrong?
3/10/2010 10:56:06 AM
#1130843
SleepNeed
You're gay because you've chosen to allow and succumb to perverted thoughts and feelings.
You do know that someone could easily reverse that for us straight people right?
You've? made a choice to be gay because it's easier justifying your actions then doing something about them.
Your right it is. But tell me when did you choose to be attracted to women or men?
To be a homosexual is to Reject God and all and any logic that says otherwise.
Your logic is flawed.
There is however many gays that would love to be helped back to a normal life.
How many of them are harassed, bullied and had stuff screamed at them like "it's not natural" by people like you? My guess is the vast majority.
How dare you take that hope away from them by saying things like it's biological and there's nothing they can do.
What evidence do you have that it's not natural? Because homosexuality has been seen in plenty of nonhuman animals, heres a link to a list:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_animals_displaying_homosexual_behavior
3/10/2010 11:30:33 AM
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