Take it from someone who attempted to completely rework their life over the past 10 months - It does not work. Self-Improvement does not work. You are this way forever.
My last 10 months were a whirlwind of me completely changing my life in order to find happiness. I quit this site, quite basically all of the internet in general, went out constantly - every weekend, worked out ridiculously hard at least every other day. I got a whole new job. I traveled. I tried so fucking hard. I wanted to be a better person, a different person. I dedicated myself 24/7 to stopping all of my shitty habits and starting better ones.
AND it ALL FAILED
I was a fool, such a god-damned fool, to think that anything would ever change. I can fix every single minor problem in my life and the one constant one persists. I will never find peace or redemption - I am doomed to walk this path alone until the end of my days.
Ultimate Redpill for those unaware:
The reason you're in this situation is because you're somewhat on the spectrum and weren't able to form the necessary connections to a healthy social group from ages 16-22. If you're past that point it's all over. Hypergamy/80:20/genetic inferiority is all bullshit, it's not real, does not exist. You just missed the boat at happiness.
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The reason you're in this situation is because you're somewhat on the spectrum and weren't able to form the necessary connections to a healthy social group from ages 16-22.
I missed the boat at happiness during those years too. I was somewhat on the spectrum and wasn't able to form the necessary connections to a healthy social group from ages 16-22. So... I am now engaged to a lovely attractive lady who loves me.
Do not judge the future by the past.
It does not work. Self-Improvement does not work. You are this way forever
This is what happened to Simon Weston because of he being burned by an Exocet anti-ship missile in the Falklands War:
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And despite that - and 70 operations on his face to save his life, never mind improve his self - he still got married.
You manbabies don't have the right to think the way you do.
Ten months? But...you wanted to be better for a lifetime, right? Have you actually attained the magic age of X (= any number you choose), so you've now decided that there is no life after X? You've just defined X as "the age where I give up". Just think how much happier and more hopeful you would be if you never heard all those self-defeating philosophies about "hypergamy" and "Incels" and "healthy social group" and the age of X. You are miserable because of the ignorant junk you read on line.
Well hey, at least he acknowledges that " Hypergamy/80:20/genetic inferiority" is all bullshit.
That's progress, I guess. He's probably going to get banned from r/incels for that though.
Oh, and did all those steps include trying to improve your personality? I strongly suspect, despite everything you did, you continued to be a whiny, entitled, misogynistic douchebag with a shitty personality.
Edit: Or, he put in the bare minimum, didn't have a bunch of super models jumping on his junk 30 seconds later and ran whining back to his little echo chamber on Reddit.
Any form of self-improvement can be brutally hard. Your subconscious mind, your body, or your life circumstances may betray you. The usual methods may not work for you - and if you're really unlucky, nothing will. Sometimes you'll find it's simply not worth the effort. Or it may end up being easy. You never know, and have to pick your battles there, unfortunately. But that's no excuse to give up on ever achieving any kind of self-improvement.
Youth is wasted on the young. So impatient. It takes a lifetime of learning
@Daspletosaurus: It's not about who says it, it's about content. When incels whine about how girls are mean and have cooties, it's SSTDT. When they whine about how the system is stacked to keep them down, it's CSTDT. And when they whine about how everyone else is completely wrong and their own worldview is the only one that's true, they end up here.
This reminds me of a monologue from Vinnie Barbarino (played to hilarious perfection by John Travolta in the 1970s sitcom, Welcome Back Kotter ) concerning studying....[PARAPHRASING HERE]....*best read in a goofy 'New Yawk' accent* "I tried studying. I did it, it doesn't work. I once tried opening up a book....and I studied....reeeeeaaalllyy studied....no foolin' around....FIFTEEN SOLID MINUTES....AND I LEARNED NOTHING!"
In a nutshell; Self-Improvement takes more time and effort. Life isn't like a 1980s movie where one becomes awesome after a 5-minute-montage involving a song by the band, Survivor!
The Misogynosphere appears to be populated by dorks who's confused 1980s-90s "teeny-bopper" sex/romance comedies with real life. They all see themselves as the protagonists of Revenge Of The Nerds or something.
>The Misogynosphere appears to be populated by dorks who's confused 1980s-90s "teeny-bopper" sex/romance comedies with real life. They all see themselves as the protagonists of Revenge Of The Nerds or something.
And a lot of the time, the "nerds" in those movies were conventionally attractive actors with the same build as an underwear model.
10 months? That's nothing, a tiny moment in your life.
You need to focus on being a different version of yourself, not to be a different person.
Which shitty habits did you try to stop, and what new ones did you try to start? What were YOUR reasons for doing this? The changes has to come from within, you can't try to plaster on a new personality to impress women. They will very soon see that it's just superficial.
I'm not the same me as I was thirty years ago, or twenty years ago, or ten years ago. NB; "years", decades, not just a measly 10 months.
What constant minor problem can't you fix? Being a whiny impatient crybaby?
@Swede
Which shitty habits did you try to stop, and what new ones did you try to start?
Yeah, that's what I'm wondering too. Whether he even did any of this at all is already suspect considering how often "incels" just straight-up lie, although I'm willing to grant this one specifically a little leeway considering he's also the only "incel" we've quoted so far who's willing to admit their "muh genes" argument is bullshit. But considering that even when they're not deliberately lying they still all prove to be barely even adjacent to the reality we inhabit, for all we know he did do it, but completely fucked up at every step because he doesn't know how human beings outside of the hive mind work.
Did he still lust only after supermodels scoring at least an 8/10 on some arbitrary attractiveness scale?not doing what he wanted (i.e. dropping their pants for him)?
Confused?
So were we! You can find all of this, and more, on Fundies Say the Darndest Things!
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