The reality, for most white American males is that we like the fact that Asian girls look different from our sisters and mothers and all the women we grew up around. Different is exotic, exotic is hot. We like that they tend to be thinner and lighter built which equates to more feminine. We like that they tend to STAY thinner and more fit. Smaller woman makes us feel bigger and more masculine. Most of the time they act less spoiled because mommy and daddy wanted a boy. In general it makes them more approachable and just friendlier.

Finally we like that they like us. Its just good for the ego.

You can argue all day about how there is some underlaying negative force at work in all this but really almost any woman who takes care of herself and stays fit and acts like a girl will be found attractive by most men. (A lot of western women dont seem to think they should act like girls anymore, but men react to that in our primitive crocodile brains) If she happens to be a bit different from 90% of the females we grew up around it will make her stand out from the group and catch our eye more than the norm and face it in most parts of the US outside certain San Jose neighborhoods, Asian girls are still a minority yet they don't have any of the negative stigma that will be attached to dating a black woman. Sorry black women I'm just saying the truth. I think its BS too but you all know better than me how that goes. Asian girls are just different enough to be interesting and similar enough to be safe.