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Normies answer this

Would you be happy if you were a Virgin at 20+ ? I don't fucking think so. Stop shaming Incels. You just got lucky. Sex and relationships are a big part of life. Lol sex and relationships aren't everything! Lol oh please. A lot of normies are obsessed with sex. You normies wouldn't last as an incel. Most people would be unhappy as fuck if they were incel. Most people are unhappy when they aren't in a relationship, people are always trying to find someone. No one wants to be alone. Lol I Fucking see women complain about being single for 3 weeks. You guys have no clue.

iamhopeless256, /r/incels 83 Comments [12/24/2016 1:07:19 AM]
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Submitted By: Pharaoh Bastethotep

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Grey Rook

I'm a twenty-plus virgin and I'm okay with it. I'm certainly not as much of a whining jerkass as you lot, though that might be because I don't place as much importance on sexuality as you obviously do.

12/24/2016 3:02:06 AM

Pharaoh Bastethotep

Here is my answer :

I am 22. I have never had a girlfriend or sex. I have ADHD and Aspergers. I am fat. I have been through horrible sexual frustration. I feel an intense longing for romance. And yet, I have never been in danger of falling victim to this madness of inceldom.

Your suffering is not unique. Many of us "normies" do not despise you because we do not know how it feels to be "involuntarily celibate". We despise you because we do know and thus recognise your whining for the self-absorbed, egotistical, misogynistic, delusional, self-defeating martyr-complex bullshit it is.

But I guess that makes me a blue-pilled Cuckcel or whatever to you. Not that I care about your stupid, badly made-up insults.


12/24/2016 3:04:38 AM

Grey Rook

@Pharaoh Bastethotep: Well put. Quite a few of those conditions apply to me too, but like you I've never been tempted to declare myself an incel. Of course, that might be due to my marginal degree of self-awareness.

12/24/2016 3:08:26 AM

creativerealms

I am a thirty five year old asexual. I have no interest in sex and I am perfectly happy.

12/24/2016 4:37:42 AM

The Reptilian Jew

I'm 18 year old and so far my only romantic advance was a half-year-long relationship with a girl from California over the internet and an ocean's distance, you can imagine it didn't involve much sex. I am overweight and generally unattractive, and I'm longing intensely for a relationship.
Here's the thing though: I'm not an entitled misogynisitc little prick like you lot are. Instead of whining about "Chads" and fake sociology, I acknowledge that my bad luck with women is at least partially due to the fact that I'm not very attractive. I'm trying to solve my weight problem and be generally charismatic.
Relationships are not blind luck. There is an element of luck involved, yes, but everyone is looking for their type and almost everyone out there is someone's type. If you're not utterly repulsive, your chances of finding a partner elevate significantly.
Oh wait, you ARE utterly repulsive. My bad.
You hate women yet wonder why won't they date you, the only thing you're looking for in a relationship is sex, and Instead of trying to change into a better person you blame the whores and Chads for not catering to you. Gee, I wonder why you haven't found a date yet.
My sincerest advice is to reconsider what is it about you that might be driving women away from you, and change for the better. Or if that's not possible, strap a fleshlight to a punching bag because at this point that's all you're looking for in a woman.

12/24/2016 6:54:41 AM

Anon-e-moose

I lost my virginity to the school hottie when I was 16.

Isaac Newton lived to the ripe old age of 84. He died a virgin.

Your point, youareahopelessretard?

12/24/2016 6:57:54 AM

Pharaoh Bastethotep

>The Reptilian Jew
Strange. I thought you were much older than I. Or is it because Reptilians age differently from humans?

12/24/2016 7:04:57 AM

Doubting Thomas

You normies wouldn't last as an incel.


Because "normies" would be able to get dates. "Normies" know that if women aren't being attracted to them, then there's something they need to change about themselves instead of sitting around whining pathetically on the internet about how women aren't giving them their fair share of sex.

I lost my virginity around 19 or 20, but then my life situation changed and I was celibate for nearly 10 years. It wasn't women's fault for not beating a path to my door for sex, it was on me to get out and meet them, which due to my circumstances I just wasn't doing. Yes, I was lonely. No, I didn't turn to hating women and dwelling in self-misery and misogyny. Now I've been married for 17 years and will say that a marriage license is not a sex license. There's just going to be a lot of times when you're up for it but your SO just won't be in the mood. But acting like a spoiled child if I don't get sex is definitely not going to work. What will work is taking my spouse's feelings into consideration and knowing that a relationship is about more than sex. Sex is just the icing on the cake.

12/24/2016 7:14:34 AM

Citizen Justin

21 actually, that was when I lost it. (I am 45.) No I wasn't happy with it, not at all.

BUT... I didn't go round saying that women were all bitches in heat fucking 'Chad'. Or make rape jokes. Or feel rage or hate when I saw a cute couple. Or blame society, or feminists, or Jews, or indeed anyone apart from myself and my own problems.

Self-improvement starts with attitude to life. Once your attitude is wrong enough to label yourself an 'incel' you're pretty much fucked, and not in the way you want to be.

Doubting Thomas stated it better than me.

12/24/2016 7:45:49 AM

The Reptilian Jew

@Pharaoh Bastethotep
We live much longer than humans, actually. That's how we plan our long conspiracies. I guess I'm just an early bloomer for a reptilian.

12/24/2016 7:59:42 AM

Kanna

...says the person named, appropriately, "iamhopeless", who considers himself part of a group named for their obsession with unattained sex. You guys shame yourselves with that constant whine.

As a widow, I found my sex life was over long before I was ready for that to happen. Unlike you, I don't hold out much hope for a future romance - so I make a contented life concerning myself with other matters entirely. That's a better solution than feeding on your own pain, which just intensifies it.

12/24/2016 8:27:20 AM

pyro

23-yr-old virgin. A better person than you.

12/24/2016 8:30:55 AM

freako104

I know people who are, many want to wait til marriage. They're just fine.

12/24/2016 8:45:10 AM

Dizzy Dream

There are lots of people who are still virgins in their twenties, and they don't whine and throw hissy fits because the world won't bend over backwards to please their boner.

12/24/2016 8:45:11 AM

The Crimson Ghost

You are most certainly hopeless.


12/24/2016 8:53:05 AM

Liz_7

I haven't had a sexual relationship for 7 years. That doesn't make me or anyone around me defective. I certainly don't feel like I'm losing out in life. I have solid family and friend relationships and a job that makes me feel like I make a good impact. Most single people I know wouldn't mind a relationship (myself included) but they don't obsess over it either.

And yes, I am a woman.

12/24/2016 9:18:29 AM

Thinking Allowed

A lot of normies are obsessed with sex.


Funny, because it seems like to me you guys are constantly thinking about sex and how much you ain't getting.

Fucking see women complain about being single for 3 weeks. You guys have no clue.


If that's the case, I should be bitching up a storm. I've been single for over 12 years and I'm not complaining a bit.

12/24/2016 9:31:36 AM

keppie

The difference is in the reaction to the problem.

"Normies" ask themselves or trusted people in their lives, "I want sex. I'm not having any luck getting any. What about myself can I change, what should I be doing differently?" Then they get to work changing their means of interacting with the opposite sex or how they think about the issue (perhaps to accept the situation temporarily, as it happens to all of us).

Incels sit around and complain, blaming and slandering people they don't even know for sleeping with others or claiming some huge societal problem exists because your desires are not fulfilled.


12/24/2016 9:45:21 AM

Salami

Actually, I'm asexual/aromatic. So I would be very happy if I was still a virgin at 20+, because it means that I'd never been raped up to that point. I'm not "always trying to find someone" or unhappy because I'm not in a romantic relationship-- I have a few friends, people overall seem to like me, and that's what counts for me.

And its the incels who aren't obsessed with sex!? Is he trolling or stupid or what?

12/24/2016 9:49:22 AM

Churchy LaFemme

Lost my virginity at age 30 with a pity fuck. Did I wish it was sooner? Sure, but I didn't blame women for it. Here's a clue -- if you continue thinking of yourself as "hopeless" then you'll remain so.

As others have said, figure out what it is about you that is apparently turning women off and see if you can change it. First suggestion: stop thinking of women as walking penis holsters that owe you sex.

12/24/2016 9:55:48 AM

Quasirodent

I had the same kneejerk reaction, but then I thought, an asexual person just can't compare their lack of sex to that of a sexual person. Especially a young, hormone-addled twit like this one.

Seems like the majority of Incel Idjits are in their teens and early 20s, or is that just me?

12/24/2016 9:57:11 AM

Insult to Rocks

Try making friends. Or doing something important with your life. Or, if all else fails, stop complaining and just fucking masturbate.

12/24/2016 10:05:33 AM

Irk Koalinski

21, male, virgin, introvert, writes sex comedy fanfics in spare time. And somehow I'm still less pathetic than this guy.

https://wiki.teamfortress.com/w/images/0/03/Heavy_specialcompleted09.wav?t=20110320072617 <- the only appropriate reply to this drivel

12/24/2016 10:18:35 AM



Lost mine at 18. After my first ex girlfriend at 19, I chose not to have sex unless I am in relationship with girl. I am 37 now. I haven't had sex since I was 18. I am just fine. It's really not everything. It's enjoyable sure but there is more to life than getting laid.

12/24/2016 10:19:54 AM

Scratch

23 and virgin here, I'm doing okay. I have a circle of friends I rely on to keep me sane, but I don't think that has much to do with my sexuality. Sex just doesn't concern the rest of us like it does you people. I've been in a long-distance romantic relationship, but I generally don't count it considering we both approached in from a feeling of emotional desperation, so we broke it off. Maybe we'll try in the future, but I'd be alright if not, because they're my friend and I don't see people as receptacles for sex and nothing else.

12/24/2016 10:35:00 AM

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